Despite the reputation, only 5% are looking for hookups. Most women are on there for validation and have no interest in meeting anyone at all.
You can't put on there that you just wanna fuck in case your friends see it.
Don't do hookups is code for hookups.
They put the word in your head, but have plausible deniability if anyone asks or they don't like you in person
people on /r/tinder seem to have success, but maybe that is a minority of those who are subbed to that sub. Meanwhile /r/choosingbeggars is filled with single mom tinder profiles not looking for hookups, but rather ready to settle with a man who makes 100k+ a year, has not kids or crazy exes lol
yup, same here. I blame it on living in Kansas. luckily I met my wife offline and don't have to worry about it anymore.
Welcome to dating in the 21st century, where if you haven't already had your own kid by 18 then get ready to be a stepfather.
Guys like you and me are too cooperative I guess. A friend once told me, "They might put 'Looking for new friends' on there, but it doesn't mean that."
Just remember, donkeys prefer trash over gold.
Lucky you, half of my matches don't even respond. And I font even get enough of those to spare for failed attempts
Going on tinder doesn't make you socially awesome. Use blue penguin.