That we can be thinking about absolutely nothing, and enjoy it. We are not ignoring you or giving you the silent treatment.
1. Making the first move on a dude is hot. Incredibly hot.
2. We appreciate honesty
3. If you say nothing is wrong, we will never know what it is (see #2)
4. We aren't great at communicating our feelings, but if we try to, support us.
5. If you are hurting, talk to us. We only want to help, even if we don't know how just tell us to shut up and be a shoulder to cry on
I want to be cuddled too, I rather not tell you though.
A lot of the time many of us can be completely oblivious to hints and/or signals. It's not that we're not paying enough attention, it's just that a lot of us are wired more for face value and directness.
We really don't want you telling your girlfriends *everything* about us. It makes us feel like everything we do is going to be judged with no chance to explain ourselves, not that we should have to explain ourselves in the first place if this was a trusting relationship.
Long division. I'm terrible at it, any help is appreciated.
When I want to be alone, it doesn’t mean you did something wrong.
Just because you're insecure about how you look doesn't mean we don't find you attractive.
Maybe I want to ask you out, just get the hint god damn it
We have feelings too...
That not all of us can be strong and confident hunks without insecurities and weaknesses.
We don't *always* want to have sex. If we're not in the mood it doesn't mean we're not attracted to you. We aren't always-on fuckbots. If I'm stressed out, angry, sick, or hungover it's probably going to be difficult to get hard in the fist place. I wish it was a simple on/off switch but it just isn't.
On the flipside, the damn thing will pop up at totally inappropriate times and we'll have to do math problems in our heads or something to avoid thinking about sex until it goes away.
If you come to us with a problem please state if you want emotional support or you want us to propose a solution to your problem.
That if I wasnt comfortable having sex with you, it doesnt mean that I'm gay (I am bi, but that's irrelevant). You cant just keep trying to take my clothes off and keep trying to grab my genitals.
Imagine if I was a woman and that was a man doing that to me. Sexual assault works both ways guys.
Your vagina is more complicated that our penises. Don't expect us to know what works, give us a few pointers and advice when we go down south.
Stop with your stupids hints and make up your mind, saying DIRECTLY what you want and think. Life is hard enough, and we don't need to perpetually try to decode your mind.
Don't bring what happenned or what was said several months or year ago during an argument. Most of the men can't even remenber what they were eating 4 days ago. Bringing up such deep events is nearly cheating, and, instead of brooding over this, TALK ABOUT IT as soon as possible
We like being babied and cuddled too. Obviously not to the extent of how the majority of y’all do, but we still like it and would appreciate receiving it sometime.
Just because we turn down sex, it doesn’t mean we don’t find you attractive. Sometimes, we’re just not in the mood, or we’re actually tired.