Dudes who put their SO down around friends or family to get a cheap laugh, be it about weight or appearance or sexual innuendo or whatever knowing full well how uncomfortable it makes them feel and everyone else in the room for that matter. Don't be a cunt fuckhead.
After playing an all-night session of card games in a pub, I was walking back to a guys house who was giving me a lift home and we got to chatting. He mentioned his girlfriend, and that he was only with her until he met someone better; he then introduced me to his girlfriend when we got to his place, and she was absolutely lovely. She was really friendly, and thoughtful, and I just found myself with absolutely no respect for the guy for being such a douche.
When they throw you or someone else under the bus to try and get laid
Caught up with a high school friend one day for about 3 minutes before he bragged about beating his girlfriend and punching his sister before his sister was able to peppers pray him. He was arrested. Released 2 days later and arrested 5 hours later for dui. Released again the next morning and back in jail before the end of the day for threatening to kill his ex girlfriend.
Uh, yeah. I don't want someone like that near me or my wife and daughter
Guys who think housework and cleaning and being there emotionally for his kids is gay
When they try too hard to get attention. Examples would be like guys who post things on facebook like
>"I just saw a woman trying to carry her groceries and so I helped her. #JustANormalDayForMe @Sally @Jessica @Jamie @Amber (proceeds to tag like 20 women)
Overtly Masculine Tough-Guy Take-No-Shit If-You-Make-Eye-Contact-I'll-Ask-You-If-You-Wanna-Fight Attitude
A literal inability to shrug anything off. I've met some dudes who would not take anything from anybody and always had to have the last word. A secure man doesn't have to assert himself and have the last God damn word at every. Fucking. Point. In. His. Life. He is comfortable in his opinion and his knowledge of things, and accepts there are some things he does not know. Lacking these traits is a mark of insecurity, and while I wish the best for insecure men, if they manifest it like that I can only lose respect for them.
Bragging or dishonesty. They are usually done together so easy to weed those people out.
Guys who dish it out, but then get all pissy when they get made fun of.