Score
Title
8897
Not again!
8906
So glad to join the positivity
35254
Italian pasta brand advertisement in honor of Simpsons 30th season
13267
Best to start at the bottom of the stick
5981
[IMAGE] "Success in 9 Words" (20)
7752
Not a space whale, India ink, 9x12
4934
In Jurassic World (2015), moments before the T-Rex is released, a t-shirt of a T-Rex saying "I'm back" can be seen in the background
6377
Hold up let me just confirm it
17457
This olive tree in Crete is 3000 years old.
37177
'Please don't go to work today'
14746
Infinite bulbs
16225
Neo-Nazi gives detailed instructions on how to murder people at Charlottesville rally, including specific death threat against a particular anti-fascist activist. The activist doxxes him - turns out he's an active service marine! His superiors find out, boot him out of the marines
20304
Ubisoft's chat bot Sam is savage.
15925
Indian priest carries member of lower caste into temple to symbolically protest caste oppression.
9598
Hebhob transforms into dinosaur! Warning- very scary!
24730
[OC] Closing a box made of perfect mirrors with a light bulb inside (x-post r/simulated)
3486
Wait does this mean...
14808
so smooth.
6721
Payed to promote an image of his dog and nothing else so we dont have to see another useless ad. Legend!
4481
These identical cars with sequential plates in the parking lot at my local shopping mall.
22291
Mexico’s lower house of Congress on Thursday approved changes to the constitution to eliminate immunity from prosecution for all public servants, including lawmakers and the president, a move meant to tackle deeply entrenched corruption.
2611
ELI5: Why do human eyes show so much white while most mammals don't have much visible white of the eye?
9676
me irl
20163
MRW a college age employee submits a vacation request for 4/20.
15245
Arizona teachers vote to strike
3312
hmmm
4339
The future is here
2358
How It All Ends
3048
I nominate Henry Winkler to play Michael Cohen
17324
My 18yo foster son just learned that he is getting a 100% free ride to a 4-year college. First in his family to ever go to college. I am so, so proud of him.
26040
But did the laptop break?
21220
Now that's why I come to these things
16302
Color changing squeezable bulb
3417
A little HTML and P"asian"ce is the key...
4857
Only one rider.
12083
Attempting to rob a bakery, wcgw.
9557
Bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki - 1945 (colorized)
30903
Waiting for the last moment
19590
Ima do this
2761
Gotta love hidden floor traps
3776 AndyMurray090 My wife, who is very wise but not a professional counsellor or psychologist by any means, puts it like this, when someone is facing a hard time, your role is to listen and understand, when someone facing a hard time asks for advice, your role is to listen, understand, and do your best to help them arrive at a solution for themselves, one FOR THEM, not just what you'd do
5766 UncomprehendedLeaf I'm really bad about doing this to friends and have just recently realized the value of a good listener because my friends have done it for me recently. Thanks for this.
1154 PhasmaFelis Double bonus bad idea: enthusiastically give them advice, then get angry when they don't immediately follow it.
3930 EstoyBienYTu TBH, it's basically never the time to offer advice unless it's asked for. Most people just want to be heard and understood, and offering unsolicited advice can seem like you're suggesting they're not capable of getting to the solution themself.
410 ASHart It's called motivational interviewing and it's a part of a much larger way of talking with people. My take on it is is that you empower the speaker to give the information they want and in that process they may work through the problem. The first approach is to limit yes or no questions, or a closed question. Instead using open ended questions. Instead of asking someone "where did you go to college?" You should ask "tell me about your college experience" They are more likely to talk more about it instead of simply saying "University of. . . . " I am sure there is plenty of detail about it in the internet, I currently work for an organization that makes it the standard when talking with our members. It really has changed my approach inside and outside of work. It makes the speaker feel like they are listened to when all the approaches are used well.
135 SkeletorYouFools LPT have someone to talk to :(
61 mccarthybergeron I should probably do this for my wife more often.
173 youdontknowmemessy Recently figured this out. Hopefully I've stopped myself before pushing a good friend away.
105 Tussinwolf I'm one of these people. Asking questions helps a lot. I feel like a burden even when someone does ask so the empty nod is usually what happens.
163 ebspurlin Had this happen yesterday. My friend would keep interrupting me to give a bunch of advice. Although their effort and good intentions bring some comfort and helpful knowledge, it’s still frustrating and makes me want to quickly end the conversation.
81 DelphineasSD I did this. helped that i was super uncomfortable with the subject matter. Live in Wisconsin, a then-buddy's GF left him for some random planetside 2 fucker in Michigan. Abandoned her kids and was super hard to get in contact with. I was a 27 year old virgin whose last relationship was in high school, felt super awkward because i am like the literal last person of of group that can relate in any way.
74 newstarttn So how are you doing, man?
3781 0 AndyMurray090 My wife, who is very wise but not a professional counsellor or psychologist by any means, puts it like this, when someone is facing a hard time, your role is to listen and understand, when someone facing a hard time asks for advice, your role is to listen, understand, and do your best to help them arrive at a solution for themselves, one FOR THEM, not just what you'd do
5765 0 UncomprehendedLeaf I'm really bad about doing this to friends and have just recently realized the value of a good listener because my friends have done it for me recently. Thanks for this.
1153 0 PhasmaFelis Double bonus bad idea: enthusiastically give them advice, then get angry when they don't immediately follow it.
3922 0 EstoyBienYTu TBH, it's basically never the time to offer advice unless it's asked for. Most people just want to be heard and understood, and offering unsolicited advice can seem like you're suggesting they're not capable of getting to the solution themself.
414 0 ASHart It's called motivational interviewing and it's a part of a much larger way of talking with people. My take on it is is that you empower the speaker to give the information they want and in that process they may work through the problem. The first approach is to limit yes or no questions, or a closed question. Instead using open ended questions. Instead of asking someone "where did you go to college?" You should ask "tell me about your college experience" They are more likely to talk more about it instead of simply saying "University of. . . . " I am sure there is plenty of detail about it in the internet, I currently work for an organization that makes it the standard when talking with our members. It really has changed my approach inside and outside of work. It makes the speaker feel like they are listened to when all the approaches are used well.
134 0 SkeletorYouFools LPT have someone to talk to :(
59 0 mccarthybergeron I should probably do this for my wife more often.
178 0 youdontknowmemessy Recently figured this out. Hopefully I've stopped myself before pushing a good friend away.
108 0 Tussinwolf I'm one of these people. Asking questions helps a lot. I feel like a burden even when someone does ask so the empty nod is usually what happens.
161 0 ebspurlin Had this happen yesterday. My friend would keep interrupting me to give a bunch of advice. Although their effort and good intentions bring some comfort and helpful knowledge, it’s still frustrating and makes me want to quickly end the conversation.
78 0 DelphineasSD I did this. helped that i was super uncomfortable with the subject matter. Live in Wisconsin, a then-buddy's GF left him for some random planetside 2 fucker in Michigan. Abandoned her kids and was super hard to get in contact with. I was a 27 year old virgin whose last relationship was in high school, felt super awkward because i am like the literal last person of of group that can relate in any way.
77 0 newstarttn So how are you doing, man?