“In September of last year, I met a woman at a party. We exchanged numbers. We texted back and forth and eventually went on a date. We went out to dinner, and afterwards we ended up engaging in sexual activity, which by all indications was completely consensual,” “The next day, I got a text from her saying that although ‘it may have seemed okay,’ upon further reflection, she felt uncomfortable. It was true that everything did seem okay to me, so when I heard that it was not the case for her, I was surprised and concerned. I took her words to heart and responded privately after taking the time to process what she had said. I continue to support the movement that is happening in our culture. It is necessary and long overdue.” Saved you the click.
Chappelle told you guys to get the love contract but no
This should never have been made public. Its no ones business but theirs and is in no way 'assault' .
It was an awkward hook up, nothing more. Right now I would say she is the aggressor and completely wrong for doing this.
I felt awkward when he asked me to blow him so I went ahead and blew him. What the fuck? I'm sorry she felt awful about it afterwards but she was engaging with him in all that shit so what was he supposed to think? She hadn't come out and said she didn't want to do anything with him so it's ridiculous to blame him solely for him wanting to have sex with someone giving him 2 blowjobs. He was horny and she was consenting so of course he's going to keep at it until she stopped consenting. What a stupid situation.
"He didn't respond to nonverbal cues". I think sucking a dude off because he pointed at his dick is a pretty strong cue.
It pisses me off that she can drag his name through the dirt while remaining completely anonymous. Her identity should be revealed to protect the rest of society from this psychopath.
I don't feel bad for anyone who can't say "no" unless they feel like their life is threatened in doing so. It's insulting to women to consider us too feeble to communicate directly, and I don't want my future sex life to consist of scared men who have to ask for consent during every escalation of what should be an organic act.
If you go to someone's apartment after a date, take your clothes of willingly, give them a blow job, twice, and never once say no, then perhaps you didn't want to do those things for what they are, but you wanted something that came out of doing them. You wanted their social connections, their status, or even just their personal friendship, but it was something you couldn't risk giving up by turning them down.
You wont say "no" because you want to leave all your options open, to see if you can manipulate the relationship where you can keep them around AND not have to do anything you don't want to. He expressed himself clearly; he wanted to have sex. And that's okay because there's plenty of women out there who just want to have sex too. You should have saved both of yourselves some dignity and let him know you were not one of those women, but you made your choice.
If you regretted it the next day, it was still your choice.
> After arriving at his apartment in Manhattan on Monday evening, they exchanged small talk and drank wine. “It was white,” she said. “I didn’t get to choose and I prefer red, but it was white wine.”
TIMES UP AZIZ!